One of the things I hate most about lefty spaces is the weaponization of social justice language. Sorry you had to deal with that first hand from a cynical abuser.
I also hate divisions in the queer community. AFAB and AMAB are part of the same struggle. Even if I accepted that it’s easier for AFAB to transition, my thought would be “GOOD. I’m happy for you.” Any queer movement would be incomplete without you.
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Using a strap is fucking based. Wtf is wrong with this person? Both cis women and trans women (and many other genders) enjoy using straps. Why would that disqualify anyone from topping?
You did the right thing getting far away from them
Really the infighting is just the worst. The idea that trams people assigned female have it easier is just the worst fucking meme there is. Death to queer sectarianism.
One of the things I hate most about lefty spaces is the weaponization of social justice language. Sorry you had to deal with that first hand from a cynical abuser.
I also hate divisions in the queer community. AFAB and AMAB are part of the same struggle. Even if I accepted that it’s easier for AFAB to transition, my thought would be “GOOD. I’m happy for you.” Any queer movement would be incomplete without you.
sex
Using a strap is fucking based. Wtf is wrong with this person? Both cis women and trans women (and many other genders) enjoy using straps. Why would that disqualify anyone from topping?
You did the right thing getting far away from them
sex
their logic was that it wasn’t enough stimulus to feel good and therefore be worth it? idk, really fucking weird take
thanks for the affirmation, it’s really helpful for other people to remind me that they were fucking abusive and i needed to get out lol
Hope you find someone on your level when you’re ready
Really the infighting is just the worst. The idea that trams people assigned female have it easier is just the worst fucking meme there is. Death to queer sectarianism.