TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]

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Cake day: January 2nd, 2021

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  • kinda a downer thing about abuse also SEX MENTIONED

    so i broke up with my partner of about a year about a month ago

    i learned that after cutting communication with them from a mutual friend that they had called me transmisogynist bc i was attributing them “standing up for themselves” as a threat because of me thinking of them as a dangerous cis man. obviously i did not think this, and the “standing up” for themselves was them yelling and insulting me, usually over perceived slights that were not what i was trying to communicate.

    while we were dating they had also made a lot of transphobic comments towards me and other AFAB trans people. like saying AFAB trans people have it infinitely easier than AMAB trans people and that there was little point to me topping cos i’d have to use a strap.

    so yea i dont feel great about all that lmao kitty-cri







  • mutual friend sent me what my ex said to them after i cut contact with them and ohhhh man

    apparently i am not of sound mind for thinking “good luck finding someone who can act perfectly forever” was uh, basically saying no one can love me. also apparently i am not friends with my friends because i can only get along with people who don’t have a spine… so sorry everyone here apparently u dont have spines i hope u get new ones soon that must be uncomfortable 😔

    they also said i was trans misogynist cos i got uh… upset/scared at them throwing tantrums and literally screaming at me constantly, so i apparently equate aggression = masculine = dangerous man. which is … an interesting thing to presume, i think. while we were dating they made weird comments about all trans AFAB guys being shitty, which was, you know, not good, since i am that.