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Thanks. I needed to hear this. To be honest I find the whole notion really insulting and belittling. I’m alive and thriving. I’m present and happy. Instead of being excited to meet the real me, they’re crying about who I used to be. They don’t trust me or believe me when I say that version was actually factually killing me. They don’t trust me that the real me is the one worth knowing. And I just have to sit here and listen to it.
venting
It really is such a weird thing to hear. “It’s like your dead. Waaaaaaa.” Uh newsflash, if I was dead we wouldnt be having this conversation. I’d be, you know, dead. Instead of being excited to meet the real me, I have to listen to her lament her suffering over the loss of the old me. I understand that it’s a common thing for people to feel but for fucks sake it’s incredibly self centered. As if my suffering means nothing. As if my feelings aren’t valid. I should just go back to how they saw me because it was more convenient for their narrow worldview.
Oh no the old you is dead.
Yeah. Good. He sucked and was trying to kill me. Him being dead is kind of the whole point. Glad we could have this discussion.
Sorry I just really needed to vent that.