site’s back, time to party niko-dance

  • EstraDoll [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    6 days ago

    it keeps happening? like every two weeks or so at work i malefail for one customer and they’ll either call me ma’am or just get really unsure about my gender. 98% of people still refer to me as male but uhm… okay? i think that most cis men don’t get “misgendered” at that rate so i’m not even conciously trying and i’m still ahead of the curve???

  • Eco [she/her, she/her]@hexbear.net
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    5 days ago

    laser session 7 (i think?) done

    honestly the pain isn’t the problem, but when they’re doing the upper lip the cool air blows up your nose and it’s hard to breathe. kinda makes you involuntarily panic

    bought myself a couple of books afterwards while i was there

  • BountifulEggnog [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    6 days ago

    I am so fucking happy I am trans! I won’t get my high school, or even college years back but by the time I’m 30? I’m going to effing slay. All those late nights I stayed up wishing I could be a girl? A happy, cute, queen? That’s going to be me fuckers. I’m going to go to a big fucking party, or rave, or whatever and dance my god damn heart out. I’m going to hang out with my girlies, and get girldrunk, and have cute girlrelationships, and I’m going to BE FUCKING ECSTATIC! I’m going to love my body, I’m going to love myself, and I’m going to love being who I am. Who I have wanted to be for years. I will break out of this mold and be free! lea-caramelldansen

  • Frogmanfromlake [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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    6 days ago

    I went to a makeup artist and asked if she could help with my cross dressing makeup.

    She responded by saying, “I don’t help people with cross dressing because it’s against my religious beliefs.”

    I then laughed in her face. She didn’t like that.

  • EllenKelly [comrade/them]@hexbear.netM
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    6 days ago

    Would it surprise you if I told you the HEXBEAR logo has been erased completely again. I just watched the 24-72 hour time lapse, it’s funny to watch us make art, completely move, make more art, move again, rinse repeat

    All the “we wont fill the remaining white space, dont expand the canvas!!” - yeah sure, maybe because instead of working collaboratively you’re just stalking trans people and destroying their art - NATO freaks are fascist dogs

    https://canvas.fediverse.events/#x=687&y=362&zoom=50&tu=https%3A%2F%2Fhexbear.net%2Fpictrs%2Fimage%2Fbbdc775e-c22e-432b-bfaa-4836c0246313.png&tw=1000&tx=0&ty=0&ts=DOTTED_SMALL

  • ashinadash [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    6 days ago

    It feels like (anecdote time) just over the last five or so years, “they” as a neutral singular pronoun has gone from a fringe concept for assholes to bitch about grammarwise (and they sometimes still do) to a very commonplace word. I hear it in sloptube videos and stuff, even goofy gamer ones. Truly a banger bloomer