Cromalin [she/her]@hexbear.netM to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.netEnglish · 10 months agodealing with gender reveal partieshexbear.netimagemessage-square73fedilinkarrow-up1119arrow-down15
arrow-up1114arrow-down1imagedealing with gender reveal partieshexbear.netCromalin [she/her]@hexbear.netM to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.netEnglish · 10 months agomessage-square73fedilink
minus-squaresilent_water [she/her]@hexbear.netMlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up15·10 months agohmm, I think I’d be terrified of accidentally setting them off if it turned out they weren’t transphobic but I got too fidgety or excited at their response. can I leave the trigger in the hands of a trusted trans mentor?
minus-squaretheposterformerlyknownasgood [she/her]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up9·10 months agoI think that would be fine. But I think you’re socially obligated to help others rig up their explosives at that point.
minus-squaresilent_water [she/her]@hexbear.netMlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·10 months agoofc, at this point I’m the trans mentor more than the baby trans anyway
hmm, I think I’d be terrified of accidentally setting them off if it turned out they weren’t transphobic but I got too fidgety or excited at their response. can I leave the trigger in the hands of a trusted trans mentor?
I think that would be fine. But I think you’re socially obligated to help others rig up their explosives at that point.
ofc, at this point I’m the trans mentor more than the baby trans anyway