• blame [they/them]@hexbear.net
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    14 days ago

    You can change things you dont like about your life as an adult. Not everything of course we still have to pay rent and eat and shit (on the landlords doorstep). But if you were a weird teenager you dont have to be a weird adult. You can go to the gym and therapy and get a girlfriend or a boyfriend or a gundam.

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      14 days ago

      I think I understand a little. Like the muscle memory would’ve already been instilled and gains already made, knowledge already had. I didn’t do sports besides recess or p.e. but that was only because I never had transportation (and had a mother who was struggling to deal with it all and her traumas). Would’ve been great. Now my gains are only for the swoletariat.

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        i dont think thats necessarily true, i did sports growing up as a kid and was very uncoordinated despite playing competitive sports year round until i was about 16, which is basically when you age out of a lot of youth sports if you’re not good enough to carry on into competitive jr and adult leagues. So that being said my gains are also only for the swoletariat. solidarity