• aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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      3 months ago

      Are you really not seeing the issue? This could easily be interpreted as “I don’t find you physically attractive”, even if it wasn’t intended. Who in the world wants to hear that from their partner? It also could easily be interpreted as negging. Are people not allowed to feel aggrieved by that?

      • Nocturne Dragonite@lemmygrad.ml
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        No, I am not seeing that cause she didn’t say it nor imply it lmao so I don’t see how you are? “Easily interpreted” is wild.

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          3 months ago

          If someone said to you “you’re not someone I’d like to hook up with”, would that be more of a compliment or an insult to you?

    • SchillMenaker [he/him]@hexbear.net
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      She literally says he wouldn’t be a FWB to her, the implication being that she’s not attracted to him in that way. If this guy came back and said “I listened to that Jimmy Soul song and I realized that you could really make me happy for the rest of my life so let’s go for it” would the expectation be that she’s cool with that?

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        3 months ago

        How is that an implication? She says he’s worth more than a fwb, all that extra shit I have no idea where y’all are getting from cause she never said he wasn’t attractive