Welcome! Don’t let the ironic detachment fool you, this is one of the kindest and most well moderated places on the internet.
Be open to having your opinions challenged because if you’re from the anglosphere I promise you the propaganda and indoctrination run much deeper than you expect. No one challenging your views is doing so out of some desire to personally attack you. Feel free to report if that’s what it feels like because our mods are A1 best in the fediverse and they will attend to that shit. Most of us are just trying not to feel hopeless and powerless, especially those of us in the west. Sometimes that can manifest as vitriolic rhetoric but our mods are pretty good and catching and stamping that shit out.
We all believe that growth happens through struggle and we’ve all had to struggle a lot with each other and ourselves to arrive at the positions we carry. And do not mistake this for a hive mind because there’s actually a pretty wide range of beliefs here and we’re all the better for it.
And we all recognize that we are all fallible and so it’s ok to be wrong about things. We get stuff wrong all the time here. But often times the difference between correct and incorrect is not so much whether “X thing happened like this” vs “actually X thing happened like this” but “X thing happened like this” vs “I do not have the firsthand knowledge or resources to say how X thing happened or whether it’s happening at all”. This is especially true when it comes to current events. (Uyghur “genocide” being a great example of this)
Just keep an open mind and remember that the atomic unit of propaganda is NOT falsehood, it’s EMPHASIS.
And if that comment about Xinjiang is too spicy for you then DM me so I can set you up w/ my homie Mehmet. He’s no Authoritarian tankie totalitarian apologist and he can get you an incredible deal on some Iraqi WMD’s!
Oh and don’t clean the owl, we like them that way!
Yeah, to any lurkers here reading this, the hexbear mods and members are so fucking good and have literally created the most trans friendly space I’ve ever been in on the internet (including some trans specific spaces) and if it weren’t for hexbear I think it would have taken me a lot longer to realise I was trans
Also I’m in two discords specifically for trans communists made out of their members which are pretty cool
Some trans specific places really have terrible moderation and let terfs, liberals with concerns, and similar run ramshod over the place
I credit hexbear for preparing me to handle a young cousin’s FTM exploration properly. I was hanging out with them at the Toronto pride parade this year. They’d always liked to present themself as androgynous when growing up. When they used a traditionally-masculine name different from their birth name at a coffee shop, it was nice to simply ask “Trans?” and for the right pronouns. I know they were worried about how I’d react (a very cis male 40+ oldster) but learning from people here about how to be a trans ally really helped that conversation go well. I went from just being the cool cousin, to being the cool safe ally cousin. That was a really good day. I owe it to the people here.
Edit: And I just found out that they’ve come out to their parents as trans, and their parents are 100% supportive, never deadnaming, never misgendering. I always did like that particular uncle. He’s a good guy.
That’s so fucking cool, good job!
Anything in particular that makes it so trans friendly? If there’s anything like a formula, I’d love to be able to take it elsewhere.
Over 50% of the mod/admin team are trans
We have visible pronoun tags
We purged any users that expressed transphobia
We had reading groups for trans based theory, primarily “Trans Liberation: Beyond Pink or Blue by Leslie Feinberg”
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I remember when someone posted a link to a Reddit thread complaining about us ages ago in the dunk tank and in the replies someone was comparing TransComrade69 to Stalin and some other radlib was saying that they found it curious that online socialist spaces ended up mirroring “the authoritarian police states they admire so much” or something to that effect
Basically just:
“banning transphobes is literally 1984 Stalinism”
“Yes.”TransComrade69
auto-banned anyone who ever downvoted a trans user
For the uninitiated coming into this thread, no that is not literally true, we banned people who downvoted a whole bunch of specific posts from trans people that were clearly just “hey I love being trans👍” or something clearly good and cool and valid about their trans experience or whatever. We did not ban people who just happened to downvote a trans user who said they like pineapple on pizza or some shit. That doofus is telling on himself, he was probably in here just downvoting people for being trans.
But imagine we actually did ban ALL people for downbearing trans comrades…
Givem the ol’ contraption
They always tell on themselves with this. Given how many of our most powerful posters here are trans comrades, literally everyone who ever used the downvote will have done so in response to a user who was trans. I certainly did but since I never did it out of spite or habit and, voila, whadya know, I’m still here.
I’m glad the downvote is gone since it’s a bad system and bad for the vibe in general. But I’m even happier the mods purged the transphobes. Fuck those crybabies.
Lemmy.world users coming into Hexbear like
Federate uhh my balls
OoooOoooo we’re the scary instance
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it wont’ let me log in now becuase my password ain’t long enough. that’d be fine if it were creating it, but logging in, i should still be allowed to use my old PW. why did we federate? BOOOOO
Join us here where NATO isn’t sacred and the IMF can be criticized. Yes it’s scary but don’t worry old Tom Bombadil will sing to you and get away the barrow-wight of liberalism.
This forum after years of struggle is fairly ideologically consistent: Socially anarchist, Economically Dengist.
And violently transphobe-phobic
Economically Dengist.
So, you know I’m the first to defend Deng, but I’d describe the forum as adhering more towards XJT than DXT, and that’s to its credit.
It was a throw-away gag riffing on “socially liberal, economically conservative” not an accurate assessment of this site’s opinions lol.
I know, but I thought it was pretty close anyway :)
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Took me a minute to remember about Twitter banana discourse but I was appreciating the meme just as much without getting the reference.
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Somebody said that under global socialism there wouldn’t be year round bananas in like Ohio bc the supply chain wouldn’t make sense and everyone started arguing about it.
I’m with the chapo boys on this one, who even likes bananas? They’re a pretty mediocre fruit
Plantains on the other hand you can pry from my cold dead hands
bananas are supposed to be cheap.
but if you subtract the weight of the skin, which is inedible, unsmokable and otherwise not consumable, it is not particularly cheap actually.
plantains have thinner skin and bigger meat so there is less waste.
mini bananas are ++++expensive
I beg your pardon?
I’ve been here for years at this point but I have no clue what federating or even lemmygrad is. Can anyone given me a quick rundown? Thanks!
Federating will allow people to interact with different instances with one account. Hexbear is an instance, and so is Lemmygrad. Lemmygrad is a smaller space that is explicitly ML (you can check them out at lemmygrad.ml), whereas Hexbear is (or at least aims to be) nonsectarian. After we federate, you’ll have the option to view “Local” which will just show Hexbear posts, if you don’t like seeing other instances. Each instance has different rules to follow, and you’ll be expected to follow those rules while posting there. If a bunch of posters from one instance break another instance’s rules (or if they arbitrarily dislike us), than an instance may choose to defederate, so that users from both instances won’t be able to interact. Also, while on another instance, you’ll only see posts from instances we’re federated us, so for example, lemmy.world defederated from us, but we will both be federated with Lemmygrad, so we can both post there but we won’t see each other’s posts.
so for example, lemmy.world defederated from us, but we will both be federated with Lemmygrad, so we can both post there but we won’t see each other’s posts.
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