if one is going to win anyway, why not nudge things towards the one that is more humane, even if its just a drop in the bucket?

Like I said, materially supporting genocide is a red line. The GOP is working to strip rights and protections from women and LGBT populations. Yeah, the Dems aren’t actively participating. They are doing sweet fuck-all about it though. Their inaction on minority protections does not justify their culpability in genocide. Not to mention how many times the Dems have refused to codify such protections into law when they had the chance. They know for a fact that they’re allowing the GOP to get away with their shit once the GOP is elected, and they just don’t care. This lack of active attack means that people such as yourself can see them and say “well at least they’re not the ones actively hurting me” and still ensure that nothing is actually done. The “attack - standback” cycle is endless, and each party benefits from not actually helping these minorities. It’s like I was saying earlier, the Dems will absorb votes from people who think they’ll help. And they’ll never help. They don’t want to. If you care about women and gay people, why vote for a party that willingly participates in that disgusting cycle?

is it really an active step?

Yes. You are taking the time out of your day to expend energy and thought into marking your ballot and getting it filed. In some states, a substantial part of your day. That is actively deciding to use your limited impact on this system to vote for the genocide guy.

I think your serial killer daycare analogy is a bit weak, in that there are many more steps to electing someone to office than there are to hiring someone for a daycare

Don’t be a nerd about this. Of course there are more steps. It doesn’t change the choice’s similarities.

Anyway, other people smarter than I am seem to have a lot more energy for the Q&A session so I’m tapping out. My point was and is that Dem’s “pretending to give a fuck” act about minority protections does not excuse them from participating in genocide. The fact that we’re at this point shows that democracy has blatantly failed. Good luck with your inquiries