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Okay yeah it definitely feels that way at times
Okay yeah it definitely feels that way at times
I just have this voice that says
#spoiler ‘what if you’re wrong and you’ve alienated Your family for the sake of nothing but self-indulgent, pointless navel gazing.’
Thank you for saying this, I hope that in time you can make it a guiding principle for yourself as well.
Woah thanks so much for sharing.
I’ve felt a lot of these things at one time or another. (Except the part that I do enjoy penetrative sex but not more than other stuff, I wouldn’t wanna lose pp function tbh)
I’m so glad your family has come around and you feel joy being who you are
To WHAT? I don’t even know
I’m sorry but if you can’t give advice then give me money
Hmm makes sense. Thanks for listening doll
It sucks that it had to happen this way for you but I’m glad you were able to transition
I’m already wearing the skirts fully dolling up etc sometimes when I go out, I just meant for starting hrt or something that makes presenting as masc difficult etc for when I see them.
What do I need then? Just a desire to be feminine?
Feels like I’m doing it for attention
I mean yes they aren’t allowed legally etc but most people don’t care about parental overreach where I am. And most landlords will just evict a tenant if they know there’s a possibility of people showing up making a ruckus etc, more trouble than worth etc.
Again not an absolute certainty because they’re getting old but a possibility I need to consider… All this for something I’m not even sure about and was not even a thought for most of my life.
Unfortunately they care but are losers lol. And I have reason to believe that they’ll uh… pursue their self appointed quest. It’s a coin flip since I’ve known them to do more for less but at the same time getting old so who even knows. And beyond that there’s just the regular hate crimes and stuff to be wary of.
Edit: maybe relevant but I’m not in the states/West so legal advice might not be applicable
I’d argue that they do actually care which is why they will never accept it because of their beliefs(I’ll burn in hell for eternity etc). If they didn’t care they’d be like eh nothing to do with me. I have moved out, could never even consider this otherwise, quite literally when I lived there I didn’t have the space in my head to think about identity or introspect or care about how I looked at all lol. But safety does remain an issue because… Idk how far people might go to try and save me lol.
Interesting. I read about that too. I guess first things first though, need to find horse piss dealer