bigmonkey [they/them]@hexbear.net to mentalhealth@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 year ago

Why do I do this, really?

bigmonkey [they/them]@hexbear.net to mentalhealth@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 year ago

Haven’t shaved in like a week, got a gnarly neckbeard growing: “Fuck this I’m so fucking gross and ugly why even both shaving I’ll just be disgusting to look at no matter what.”

After shaving: “Oh wow I guess I am kind of pretty and I look good when I take care of myself”

Proceed to not shave for another week. Rinse and repeat.

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“I am insecure about being ugly, therefore I will master my ugliness by forcing myself to be ugly.”

I’m getting this from reading the wikipedia page on the compulsion to repeat so take it how you will. I may be in a similar situation to you.

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