• Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    But remember most of all young adults: If you find yourself leaving often then the problem might be with you…

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      2 months ago

      While true and valid, also remember that your community can be a problem, or you might be suffering from systemic issues. Not all issues stem from individuals, and some are impossible to solve on the personal level. If you find yourself in the cult, for example, walking away is probably the best you could do, despite the scorn of the community.

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        2 months ago

        That is true and equally worth pointing out too. I sometimes find it hard to distinguish between a heartfelt life lesson versus a platitude dressed in its Sunday best.

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      2 months ago

      If you’re seeing your 5th counselor and 7th psych because you don’t want to make lifestyle changes and simultaneously want every stimulant to keep you up and downer so you can sleep… well… You’re not fun to be their doctor for.

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        2 months ago

        On the plus side at least the doctors are not willing to enable those who will not help themselves out too