For me there’s a bit of a network effect where the polycule sprawls out into the distance. Partners have partners who have partners.

But for disconnected folks, it’s mostly been tinder (yuck), and a local meetup.

(Also this might be the first post? That or nothing federated yet)

  • mattiee@kbin.run
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    3 months ago

    I kind of struggle with this. Feeld has really been the only positive source of ENM connections in general, platonically and romantically, which is kind of what I’m looking for rn. I recently moved and I wanna build friends and a support network, but Feeld not exactly designed for general connections, it’s very slow.

    I found a local meetup just recently, I guess my hope is that will help!

    So I suppose my suggestion is try feeld if you haven’t already. It’s got a lot of great people in my experience but it’s very buggy