I’m somewhere along the femby scale but I’m glad to see this - I pretty often see ironic humor about hating men, even in trans circles, and it disappoints me because I know that although it’s not meant to disparage specific people and trans men it often has that effect and people get carried away. Personally I think regardless of one’s past experiences with specific guys, it’s not cool to blanket guys as a whole as bad. It’s also just incorrect to do so. So hey, @ all the wholesome dudes out there, you’re valid and cool