I am very picky about clothing and I gained quite a bit of weight so I need to go through the horrifying task of buying a new wardrobe.

My fellow chubby bunnies, where do you buy ethical/somewhat affordable plus sized clothes in (more or less) dark/solid colors? I’m starting to size out of most of the stores around me.

My usual outfit is a cropped/tiny black band t shirt or ringer shirt, black skinny jeans, black vans or blundstone boots, cropped hoodie, perhaps a flannel. Outside of that when I’m wearing stuff that’s more flashy I go for a “doom metal elf vibe” in terms of jewelry and adornments lol. Corny but I don’t know how else to describe it.

    • ratboy [they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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      11 months ago

      Oof that must be hard! Having to slowly go the online route more and more is so frustrating. I’m super particular about the fit of things and it’s such a crapshoot when you haven’t been able to try it on. I do not have the wearwithal to return stuff either lol

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          11 months ago

          Yeah:/ I hate seeing something I like, especially pants and having it top out at size 32 or something. And usually, once.you get it the plus sizes they end up charging MORE for the same style. It’s bullshit

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            11 months ago

            They charge more for the same style because they require more materials and they usually manufacture smaller runs of the bigger sizes due to a smaller market

            Once again el problemo es el capitalismo porky-happy

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    11 months ago

    Thrift stores. Unless I’m shopping for undies or something super specific I thrift all of my clothes.

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      11 months ago

      I used to thrift a ton but all of the shops in my town suuuuck. I should make a quest out of driving around the state to find clothes. I’m also like a size 16/36 now too and usually there will only be 3 pieces of clothing in that size range lol

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          11 months ago

          Yeah, I think the depop resellers and vintage shops have definitely eaten into anything wearable lol it sucks. Like I can’t even find a plain Hanes pullover sweater and if I do it’s probably 15 dollars or more. One chain thrift shop near me has been known to mark up some of their stuff above retail. It’s such a scam

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        11 months ago

        Yea. When I go thrift ing I know that I’m gonna sped all day at 6 or 7 different ones to find stuff I like and that fits.

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      11 months ago

      Thrift stores never have anything in my size. XL and below, sure. 2XL, rarely. 3XL, nope.

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    11 months ago

    Honestly? Skate brands. They already make baggy stuff and have massive size ranges and go on sale all the time, although buying in person might be a pain in the ass sometimes.

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      11 months ago

      I used to looooove Dickies clothes back in my warped tour era…some of it looks real nice now too I should get back into them

  • LanyrdSkynrd [comrade/them, any]@hexbear.net
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    I mostly buy Carhartt/Dickies/Wrangler work wear. Flannel shirts, insulated hoodies, triple stitched carpenters pants. I have no sense of fashion, but they hide my fat and are durable, cheap and comfortable. Walmart and tractor supply carry them in big sizes.

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      11 months ago

      seconding work wear. i’m a larger person and work wear always fits good and without looking kinda awkward on a larger body size. walmart pants are super underrated too.

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      11 months ago

      Uniqlo stuff looks nice, I’ve never thought about checking their stuff out. All the thrift clothes at the shops in my town are uuuuuugly, or.anything cute or my style is like a size 6! I think the solution is to.just move somewhere where people have better fashion sense lol

  • RollaD20 [comrade/them, any]@hexbear.net
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    Almost impossible to find good clothes in brick and mortar anymore imo, so everything is online unless you get lucky in person. mnml is nice because their sizing guide is super in detail, can be expensive. Fashionnova has good options and have big models + plus size options . Asos is pretty good but quality can be variable. Onebone is specifically a big & tall store and the quality is good but it’s pretty expensive.