I feel like we have some fundamental value differences so when I find someone who’s like me, I get really happy.
How do I find them?
In hostels 99% of people are actively into drinking
I feel like we have some fundamental value differences so when I find someone who’s like me, I get really happy.
How do I find them?
In hostels 99% of people are actively into drinking
Dating apps, gyms, libraries, coffee shops, parks. I agree with you it is difficult, but I’ve had success in the aforementioned.
You’ve found success in all of those? What kind of success?
Success in making friends or romantic partners that match my lifestyle.
Meeting people in the gym lead to gym friendships and girlfriends that prefer to exercise/be healthy than party.
Meeting people in cafes/coworking locations lead to coworking friendships and groups of entrepreneurs.
Dating apps where I strictly look for partners that don’t drink/party/drugs lead to exactly that (the adventure/explorative type of relationship).
Libraries may be the best (if you like to read). Striking up a conversation with a nice person over what type of books they read is very fun! I’ve gone on coffee/tea dates to discuss books with women I’ve met at the library.