heyoheyoheyyyy [she/her]

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Cake day: January 5th, 2024

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  • first thing i would stress is that trans people should be separated as two words, not transcomrades or transwomen or whatever. I only stress it because the academic transphobe contingent prefers the conflation of transwoman or transperson into a wholly new type of being rather than trans being a descriptive term, like brunette woman or tall person.

    for the rest, Julia is a fairly prolific writer and you could have your questions answered by actually reading the entirety of her work. I do think it’s weird to come to the trans comm and talk for an hour about how burrhus frederic skinner is being unfairly maligned by julia serano.

    What is the problem with most disenfranchised folks say in the last 5 years on articles or discussion boards engaging in pseudoscientific dismissal?

    i mean that doesn’t seem very good faith









  • a gender reveal party for a baby may not determine all of these things in some yes/no binary fashion but i think it’s a little weird to imply that people explosively celebrating their new infant’s baby bits are not in any way invested in it. gender reveal parties are obviously not the genesis of gendered expectations in society but it’s certainly building on those foundations. i’m not pretending to have all the answers and maybe i, a trans woman, am just being identical to a men’s rights activist, idk. in any event, im a person on the internet so you don’t have to worry about me criminalizing the practice any time soon.



  • definitely a different angle but i see it all as broadly related phenomena, like it’s all rooted in a weird and very disconcerting obsession with one’s child-accessory embodying all the things one associates with that gender rather than letting the child be their own person. the gender reveal is just announcing all of that to the world in a super obnoxious way and i do think if you’re motivated to do that then at least one of the parents is invested in that outcome