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Cake day: June 11th, 2024

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  • I use cologne. I’ll do two spurts to my mid-chest as I get ready for my day. If it’s late in the day (any time after 5pm) and I’m about to head out for something special, like meeting up with friends or going out for dinner, I’ll do one more spurt as a refresher.

    This probably depends on the scent you’re using and how strong it is or how long it lasts. The key is to not over do it. There’s a saying about how a scent should be discovered, and not announced, so I always err on the side of less often, especially because I’m so used to the scent that it’s hard for me to smell it.






  • What was the common thread from when you met the person? How did you hit it off with them?

    If you met at a bar, text them later asking if they’ve been to a certain brewery that just opened up (although this could sound like a soft invite to go there, so be prepared for that). If you connected about movies, tv shows, or music, ask them if they saw that new movie (show, album) that’s related to whatever you talked about (same director, sense of humor, style of movie, etc). Basically, just continue the conversation with them. Talk about related things and start to branch out, maybe you’ll find other common interests and things to talk about. You can send an article that you think they’d be interested in. Or a meme about their job.

    But make sure that the conversation isn’t one sided. If you’re always the one starting the conversation or carrying it, maybe back off some. They should be just as engaged as you are.