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CW: Relationship issues
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Yesterday my partner of five years told me that they’re attracted to men, which I am most definitely not. We leave for an overseas trip in a week and I don’t know what’s going to happen. My brain has been in fight/flight/freeze since and the only thing I can muster is that I’m terrified.
That part isn’t entirely clear, I started to disassociate pretty strongly when they told me and if it was clarified, I genuinely don’t remember. We’re going to see a therapist that we’ve worked with previously, hoping that will be helpful.