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Cake day: June 16th, 2023

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  • The modern world is full of cowards and wimps is the point. Op really shouldn’t have to do any of this crap because people should just be adults. Now everyone just has an authority complex, and wants the authority of a king, with the accountability of a toddler……… and normally cry “feelings” and “toxic” when they can’t just do what they want or are held accountable. Again it’s more the time of the weak man and it’s distorting the world. Corporate America never cared about feelings and that isn’t going to change now.







  • Well tbh…… yeah you were being a bit selfish. The only thing you cared about at all in that moment was yourself. I’ll tell you as a man that what happened to HIM was Fuck up and you’re lucky that he wasn’t as selfish as you and still cared about you. You’re not thinking straight. To most men legacy is a large part of why you have kids and that was taken from him the moment he found out you weren’t his biological child. And it’s even worse if he found out you aren’t his due to an affair. He has invested his time, energy, and funds into you and really when you have a child this is mostly stuff you do selflessly and the pay out of your legacy continues. In this case he was robbed of that. I understand that you’re a woman so you’re going to be an emotional thinker in most cases by nature. From a logical standpoint though this was very unfair to him. It’s also pretty obvious that he still cares about you but just like you he was hurt and protecting himself. I know this sucks, and it’s why ADULTS (your mom) should NEVER put a child in this position. The fallout always hits the kids involved ten fold and for that I’m sorry. Just know if you think you’re alone you aren’t and if you need someone to talk to to help you heal there are people like me that exist. Also always try to remember you’re responsible for how long you hurt. I’m sorry for your loss.