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Also love the part where she apologizes to Ken for pushing him to be misogynistic and create patriarchy. Because misogyny is always actually women’s fault

Lmao I remember being obsessed with the demo of this game, then finding out the actual full game was mediocre and losing interest.

It’s available on ps plus, I tried it again recently and it’s genuinely not good tbqh

It’s frustrating that it can be totally random at times, but that’s also what makes it so good

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Yeah I’ve always found it so weird when cishet coworkers would talk about this stuff as if there’s no reason I could find it weird. One coworker in particular, in between telling me about her gender reveal for her then-current pregnancy, would also tell me about how effeminate one of her sons is in a lightly mocking tone. And it’s like, how do you expect me to react to that?

So before I came out, I was in a straight-appearing relationship, with dynamics that were unconsciously just queer enough that we often lightly made fun of our more traditional straight couple friends, like literally “are the straights ok?” type stuff (we still thought we were straight though, somehow).

EVEN SO it was so much more stifling than any of my relationships after I came out. The expectations are constant and unrelenting until you get to a place where there’s no possible way anyone can read you as cishet, and even then cishets are so oblivious you have to outright tell them

For real. Its reputation as transphobic kept me away for a long time, but then when I actually went there is was by far the most trans positive online space I’d ever been in

I’m doing IBR with payments of $0

Oh interesting. Thanks for correcting me

Just for fun, I’m gonna go for the long shot and say Mia Moore’s movie is gonna be an unexpected breakout hit and it’ll be her.

Hell, Thorne’s in that movie too so it could even be a twofer

Oh no don’t insult our good friend and mentor Joe Biden

Also as a singular fact.

I thought Mau Mau was a name the Bri*ish imposed on Kenyan resistance groups rather than a name they used themselves?

For the “trans internet personality gets blockbuster role” prediction, who we thinking? Abigail Thorne?

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Honestly hard for me to even figure out how I want to present because of stuff like this. Do I like to present broadly masc for its own sake, or to signal to other lesbians? Do I like to add a bunch of fem signifiers because I like the contrast or so cis people will at least hesitate before he/himming me? I’m genuinely not sure.

Bioware says that despite that reputation, the vast majority of players still played men.

Which is weird to me because the reputation is totally deserved. Granted, Mark Meer was pretty alright by ME3, but still

That’s Devon Price right? I follow him on tumblr, he seems like a really good source of knowledge. I really should get around to reading his books.

I already knew I had ADHD, but this is the year I finally acknowledged my autism. Over the course of this year, it’s made me really understand myself on a much deeper level and I’m working on unmasking more, bit by bit. Also, it’s wild the degree to which unmasking has also helped me feel more comfortable in my gender expression, because I have loads of gay little mannerisms that I’ve suppressed my whole life that just feel so right.

Figuring all this out also means acknowledging how deeply lonely I was as a kid, which is a thought I’ve really tried to stay away from but I really just need to accept it. As hard as it is, this is how I start healing, and it’s already working.

My ADHD can go fuck itself, but realizing I’m autistic feels like as big a revelation as when I came out as trans, and the two really do feel linked in some ways (not in a way where one “caused” the other but in that they’re major parts of me that I repressed).

That was normal for me on adderall, to a degree that was honestly pretty disruptive to my life