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  • Fontasia@feddit.nlto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneJust Being Ruleal
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    7 days ago

    It is absolutely bonkers that it has taken until this year until someone said “hey this liquid that does not, feel, smell, look or taste like pee that we call pee might not be pee.” Are people with access to spectral analysis just bad at sex and have never seen it?

    Please tell me the study gave it a scientific name.




  • Ok, let me try again, a few questions that may better explain what I was trying to get at:

    Do you feel that your emotions are actively being suppressed by some “other” or do you feel angry that you were never provided the tools to do so in the first place?

    What ‘place’ do you feel is missing from society for you to vent your frustrations in?

    if you have emotions or opinions that you feel you cannot express in public, have you tried looking for a place to express them?

    How is your mental\physical health in other ways, are there peers that you can talk to or socialise with?

    I’m not asking for you to reply to answers for these questions, these are deeply personal. What I am trying to get at is if you don’t think you can talk about your emotions, you need to start working out a way to talk about your emotions before they fester and turn toxic.

    Yes I was a little short in my comment, but I don’t know you and I don’t know your context. If you don’t have any family or friends that you can talk about your emotions with, that’s not the whole world telling you that you aren’t allowed to have emotions. You need an outlet. I need an outlet. I have OCD, anxiety, and anger issues. The thing that makes these things bearable is having people to talk to about them. If you feel you can’t, or do not have the means to go to therapy fine, that sucks and you need other people who do care. If no one is asking you “how are you” with any care about the response, fine, I’ll do it.

    No judgement. No criticism. No hate. Just a sounding board if you feel like you truly have no one to talk to about this. DM me. @Octospider@lemm.ee @rekabis@lemmy.ca how are you doing?








  • Older men are generally already in a position of benefit, locked in a system where they cannot be taken down from their position of power. Reforms are coming at the beginning of the chain (entrance to university, internships and early job opportunities). Young men in families where their father/grandfather were in systems that benefited them - and also nepotism - have the understanding they will need to do very little to succeed. They have not put the effort in because they were told they would not have to compete.

    Have a look at old laws for where you live in the world. Find out whether your mother or grandmother actually had the opportunity for higher education, or even whether she could get/keep a job after she had children and then form your own conclusions from there.