CrispyCactus

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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • “Some is better than none.” -My motto throughout college.

    Usually I was stressed by the number of chapters I had to read, or pages I had to write. Instead of shutting down and not doing anything, I would tell myself to just read a single page or write a paragraph because any amount of work done is better than nothing.

    Now I apply it to work and chores.






  • Well, probably not what you’re looking for but I used to work yard maintenance for a property management company.

    I was sent to rake and tidy up the back yard of some house. In the back, there was an entrance to a root cellar that was separate from the house and had crappy wooden doors covering it. I was told to open it up and sweep the steps leading down to the cellar.

    I don’t have a problem with dark places, or bugs. But that was the first time I’d seen camel crickets. They were big, hump backed and striped. And there were dozens of them. I dutifully swept the steps, from the dead center of them, my eyes darting around constantly trying to gauge whether or not the weird ass bugs were about to launch themselves onto me. They didn’t. They were super chill.

    I told my dad about it later and he laughed at me for not knowing what the crickets were because they were so common. I’ve only seen a few more since then, and they still kinda weird me out.








  • I loved fishing in oot. My sister and I played the game together, I was at the controls, she often told me how to solve puzzles and how to navigate. I had no sense of direction and never knew how to get from a to b. But I loved fishing at that pond so much that no matter where in the game I was, I could get back to the pond, and often did when my sister was too busy to play. Spent hours there. Thanks for the reminder OP!



  • CrispyCactus toAsklemmy@lemmy.mlAre we all fucked?
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    6 months ago

    Your mother sounds like an amazing woman. I’m sorry to hear everything she (and you and your siblings) had to go through. It takes incredible resolve to survive all that.

    As someone who’s had poor health their entire life, I can absolutely agree that the ‘tender moments’ really make life what it is.

    Thanks for sharing.


  • CrispyCactus toAsklemmy@lemmy.mlAre we all fucked?
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    6 months ago

    I’ve noticed over the last few decades that every time I start worrying about WW3, climate change, solar flares, super volcanos, giant meteors etc. that there’s something going on in my personal life that’s causing me stress. Something I feel like I have no control over.

    I guess my brain doesn’t want to admit/deal with my own issues, so I focus on something else, something that feels just as overwhelming.

    Working on taming the anxiety itself is quite useful, especially if you can’t help the situation you’re currently in.

    The things that have helped me the most are: meditating (chakra and mindfulness) which has been great at helping me calm down; finding activities that feel meaningful to me; spending time with the people I care about (making the time); and finding beauty and/or amusement in everyday life.

    All of these things take practice and time, which might seem useless if you think that the world will end tomorrow. But even if all you can do is one meaningful/fulfilling thing today, then it will improve your day and help make your last day on earth a little better.

    Of course chances are good you’ll wake up tomorrow, and the next day etc., which means you have even more time to live an even happier life.

    Good luck my dude.