• Skoobie@lemmy.film
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    1 year ago

    Positive deposits are a great tool when you’re in a relationship with a power dynamic like a teacher with students or a boss with employees. A sticker chart to get the pizza party is something we are all familiar with.

    Where this falls apart is when it’s a relationship that is supposed to be based on equality and shared responsibilities. It inherently assigns the power and authority to one side, the wife/mother in this case.

    In my opinion, the only way a thing like this works is a straight up competition. Both their names need to be earning stickers and there needs to be a single prize to be won. BJs go both ways.

  • LEDZeppelin@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    From their facial expressions it appears that the guy is on the giving end of the beej and not the receiving

  • Teh@sh.itjust.works
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    Is she really incentivizing giving kids bulimia? Or just shaken baby syndrome?

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          My lad was a projectile vomitter and he didn’t know he was going to be sick until it started spurting out of him.

          We lost a stair carpet thanks to that.

  • OprahsedCreature@lemmy.ml
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    You laugh, but I’ve seen this kink in the wild. Some people get off on the misery and domination (and not just the dom).

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      Nah man, not actual misery. Dominatiom relies on a mutual understanding and enjoyment.