As a sub, what would you most wish for? want to avoid?

As a top, how would your reward your good sub? your bad sub?

(What other question(s) did I miss?)

Obviously, there are no right or wrong answers , and other potential outcomes depending on your own D/s dynamics - simply would love to hear from both subs and Doms/Dommes…

  • AlarminglyHuman@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    Wow, I thought I was doing well with a month being my record. I’m 9 days in at the moment, maybe I’ll try to match my record and then keep going afterwards.

    Edit: do you find you want release less as you go on? I hit a barrier where I’m just bored not horny, if I did longer I’d hope that the horniness would get much worse again.

    • DelvianSeek@lemmynsfw.com
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      1 year ago

      I find it comes and goes, like in waves. I’ve definitely reached that point like you’re describing, where the horniness just goes away for a while. But then it comes back. And then it goes and comes back again. I think teasing is important for keeping that arousal elevated too.