Chastity Training: Experience, Advice, and Discussions@lemmynsfw.comEnglish · 1 year ago

Subs (all genders): Why are you in chastity?

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Subs (all genders): Why are you in chastity?

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Chastity Training: Experience, Advice, and Discussions@lemmynsfw.comEnglish · 1 year ago

[Update] please note that this community is no longer restricted to Male chastity, and now is open to all. The prior narrow focus on males that was in the sidebar before was an oversight and has been removed.

Every submissive has an unique original story behind their consent, right?

I (and I’m very sure others too) am very interested in how you “discovered” chastity ( I’m sure it wasn’t taught as part of sex-ed classes 😉), why you want/agreed to be caged, what satisfaction (sexual or otherwise) you are getting, etc…

Please share your origin story, either by replying to this as comment, or starting up your own new thread. Free form, no judgements, just simply sharing.

The image in post is my collection of cages - my first one on the left was acquired a little over two years ago.

front center, my current fave and only one I wear now if at all - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07K14VYPY
right - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09Y32LSV3
back right - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09MK29LNV

I’ll be glad to my own story in comments later if you are interested.

I’m thinking a corresponding thread for Tops and Doms/Dommes could work too…

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So sorry you had that bad experience. I hope you’ll try again with a larger base ring. Proper sizing of the base ring is totally necessary to not experience that “being cut into” sensation - you want the ring/base to be snug so it won’t slip, but not overly tight that circulation is cut off when you get hard.

But to followup a bit - what dynamics made you agree to put one on?
- 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 ℹ️@yiffit.net
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  FWB pet/owner thing.

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