• Muffi@programming.dev
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    28 days ago

    Crushes are non-consensual. Getting rejected is definitely the best, because that is the first step to getting over an unhealthy obsession.

    • JackbyDev@programming.dev
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      28 days ago

      I don’t think that’s what most people mean by the term crush. It sounds like you’re describing something closer to stalking.

      • Lad@reddthat.com
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        28 days ago

        Yeah wtf. It’s totally natural to have a crush, and it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re totally obsessed with them.