• Queen HawlSera
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      4 months ago

      Honestly I’d be perfectly fine if we just stopped treating it like the Forbidden R-Word

      I’m Autistic for the record

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        I wouldn’t pejoratively call a mute person dumb, a mobility device user lame, or an intellectually disabled person retarded

        but I will absolutely call cringe political fanatics lame, dumb retards

        also here’s some free fag-passes from your friendly internet dyke, cuz “fag” is a great fuckin multipurpose word

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          This is like saying “When I say ‘that’s gay’, I don’t mean gay as in homosexual, I mean gay as in stupid”.

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            if straight women got bleeped when they said “dyke” I’d have a way easier time dating 🫠

            just run up to a hot gal with a fake microphone like “TRIVIA POP QUIZ WHAT’S THE WORD FOR ‘an embankment for holding back water’!?”

            “[bleep]?”
            “correct thank you ma’am have a nice day”

            “dyke?”
            “correct! question 2 are you single and/or dating?”

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              “TRIVIA POP QUIZ WHAT’S THE WORD FOR ‘an embankment for holding back water’!?”

              “A levee??”
              “… touchè”

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              I’m confused - does the microphone have gaydar screening and auto-bleep capabilities? I would describe that as much more than a fake microphone.

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                moreso this is a hypothetical alternate universe where every time a straight woman says the word “dyke” it gets bleeped, a la that South Park clip

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          I mean thank you, I remember I got banned from a group like 10 years ago because I said the forbidden F-word, they all knew I was pan and trans, but apparently my N-Word Pass expired?

          Can’t say the t-word either, I remember before it was a pejorative it was more like a cute nickname.

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            original meaning: “waaaah I got trapped into thinking a person of the sex I’m not attracted to is hot and now my genitalia is making me feel weird!”

            new & improved meaning: this person dressed not as their assigned-birth-sex is so hot they could literally trap me Looney Tunes style by being distractingly attractive 😩

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              I thought they meant the slur that’s also slang for a car’s transmission.

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              Not the T-Word I meant, I think Trap is still an appropiate term for femboys in a purely sexual context. It’s only offensive when used as a term for transgirls… at least that’s what I’ve heard

              The word I was thinking of is six letter long

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      4 months ago

      We call Republicans hard R’s in our house… it just fits.

      Brian Posehn has a great bit about it in his 25x2 special.