We’ve been in counseling for about a year, and both of us have been getting better in our respective ways. Issue I’m having now is I’m emotionally tapped out and don’t have the same interest or desire for them as I did. I love them very much, but I’m becoming quite indifferent and have been enjoying my time away from them more than with them. Our first years were awesome, but the last two have just been stressful and tiring; it’s been hard to just move past that.
Any advice from those who have been through rough patches and it turned out better?
I don’t have good advice for the resolution you want. So stop reading here if you only want advice for getting the outcome you described here.
With the little information you gave, it sounds to me like I personally would better like to be alone than in this kind of relationship. I don’t have a need to “save” a relationship at all.
I do a lot of self-improvement and think I have very little unresolved personal issues. I love myself a lot and thus would like to be kind to myself and not let myself try to be in a relationship that doesn’t feel good. I would know that there are people out there with whom a better relationship will be possible.
Very understandable