I didn’t quit Lemmy NSFW. I will still post nudes and other photos / gifs. I simply am changing how I use this platform. It is no longer to promote porn. I’m using it to have fun and promote my dancing now. 💕

  • 🦋 Summer Barrymore 🦋@lemmynsfw.comOPM
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    Thanks so much! I really appreciate your support. I also know women with office jobs that have stalkers. Maybe men have them too? I guess nobody is safe 😂😂 at least at this club the security will block people if I request

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      1 year ago

      I work in the tech industry (software developer) so I’ve heard many stories of women being stalked and/or treated like shit when they reject a male software developer. I know my sister as a pharmacist had a picture of her taken without her consent while she was working by another employee (to show his friends).

      Sadly, shitheads are in all industries 😔

      As for men having stalkers - now that’s an idea. Women should team up to stalk men, but stay aggravating stuff like “you’d be more handsome if you played less videogames/watched less sports/spent less time in front of the computer” etc.

      I know I got a taste of my own medicine when I was curious enough to try dating men, and, well, some of the utterly horny men I matched with really made me reflect on my own behaviour I’ll say that much.

      Also, super happy that your club will block folks on request. Three cheers for safe spaces!

      • 🦋 Summer Barrymore 🦋@lemmynsfw.comOPM
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        Yes stalking can happen to anyone! I’m sorry to hear about your colleagues who had negative consequences for simply saying no. Hopefully the human race can get better about all of this 😂😅