• Chaos@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    You’re not dating anyone if you’re paying them, you’re just a client.

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        11 months ago

        I don’t know it sounds even sadder to be paying

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            If you can’t get sex from being a cool person and you have to pay for it, that’s sad. If you’re addicted to sex and pay for it because you need sex is even sadder.

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              People who pay for sex are not universally “not cool people” who can’t get it other ways. In my work with various at risk populations, from what I hear from sex workers, plenty of people pay for sex. Funny charismatic, rich, doesn’t matter, they’re just as likely to be Johns.