• Parastie@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    This is entirely a USA problem. No one in Europe uses iMessage as their primary messaging app.

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        Over here it’s Facebook Messenger, followed by Telegram and only then WhatsApp. Signal is niche stuff for nerds such as yours truly.

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            11 months ago

            Yeah it actually varies a lot. In Poland Whatsapp is the boomer messaging app for cringy political memes used exclusively by 50+ year-olds. Everyone else uses Facebook Messenger and Telegram (especially Ukrainians, Belarussians and people who work with them)

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        Germany uses Whatsapp and Signal. Whatsapp for the older generation, Signal for the younger ones. But almost everyone has both. Telegram is a niche messenger for conspiracy theorists and alt-righters, because it’s russian and those people love Russia.

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          11 months ago

          Yea, that’s totally why people I know use Telegram / 🤦‍♂️

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            11 months ago

            Might be different in other countries, but in Germany its only used by them.

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          Telegram is a niche messenger for conspiracy theorists and alt-righters, because it’s russian and those people love Russia.

          Telegram is a nice messenger with good usability and funny stickers. The provider also doesn’t hand out user data to authorities willy nilly, so it’s popular among privacy-minded people of all political affiliations.

          FTFY

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            11 months ago

            ‘The provider also doesn’t hand out user data to western authorities willy nilly’ FTFY

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              ‘The provider also doesn’t hand out user data to western authorities willy nilly’ FTFY

              Yes, all governments including western ones. Telegram was founded by Russian people who oppose Putin.

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          i live in germany and to me telegram doesn’t feel niche at all.

          a lot of younger people use it a bit like discord, like for group stuff. organizing (like e.g. political activism), finding apartents in berlin, and yes, getting drugs as well. also some worklplaces use it (which i think is terrible). it is also preferred by a lot of people to communicate via telegram over signal or whatsapp in situations where people don’t want to give away their number, like online dating.

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      11 months ago

      And I refuse to use any Facebook products, so what’s app can fuck right off

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      11 months ago

      Not a problem for me lmao. No one I talk to uses apple products because we have self respect

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    11 months ago

    I really hate that some people I know only use Facebook Messenger, some use Instagram, some use Discord, and some use text.

    It’s a nightmare when working in groups for uni, so I just email everyone. Email has all the features I like.

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      11 months ago

      I have plenty of folks in my circles who never read or reply to emails :p

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    11 months ago

    The elephant in the room, of course, is that this is literally only a problem in the United States. Everywhere else in the world, folks are totally fine using messaging apps. WhatsApp is pretty popular worldwide, and there are regional favorites too. But, the point is, it’s only in the States that people seem to be against this idea. The answer for why is very much up for debate, but the conversation is, at this point, just getting exhausting.

    Can confirm, as a Brit. We probably would have a sardonic explanation for why only people in the States are against using other messengers too…

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      I went to great lengths to get my family group chat migrated from FB Messenger over to WhatsApp, and then Meta bought WhatsApp. I’m doomed. I’ll never get these Americans to transition to something like Signal

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      11 months ago

      I’m Canadian and use a ton of messaging services. It had honestly become ridiculous until I started using Beeper!

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      Yep. In Japan we all use LINE with a small fraction of (largely Western foreigners) using whatsapp. Korea has kakaotalk with some (also?) using LINE. I’m not sure what’s most popular in Chinese circles these days; WeChat, maybe?

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      11 months ago

      I think this might be changing in the U.S., because my friend group only talks on Discord. I don’t even have their phone numbers.

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    11 months ago

    Yeah the vast, vast majority of folk use Android, it’s Apple that fucked up SMS.

    Fuck them, nobody uses SMS for that reason, let Apple sort it out, or be forced to by the EU again lol

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      11 months ago

      Not in the US. Apple has about 60% of the market.

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          All my family uses Android, except for a few exceptions. They all dropped signal when it lost sms support. So we use sms instead, fucking cool move signal.

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            We don’t use Signal for SMS, we use Signal for E2E encryption. Signal for SMS is useless.

            I’ve basically started telling people to either message me on Signal or I likely won’t respond in a timely manner, if ever. Not my problem. Urgent? Better call.

            Dick move? Maybe. But fuck SMS and fuck iMessage.

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              Yeah I don’t want to be a dick to my friends and family I guess.

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              11 months ago

              Nah, that’s like saying “I won’t respond to a fax in a timely manner”.
              SMS is dated/dying/dead

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    11 months ago

    I still really miss Google Hangouts. It was integrated with Gmail as a web interface. The web and mobile app synced perfectly. You could use SMS/MMS, or chat, seamlessly in the same interface. Contacts worked correctly. SMS and chat history saved to Gmail so all the text was searchable. It was AMAZING and Google killed it for no reason, only to later replace it with inferior options.

    Edit: oh yeah, you could also make phone calls, or group voice and video calls using the same app/web interface.

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    11 months ago

    I want to use good apps, but my family members don’t. I can’t just avoid my family.

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    What is wrong with simply texting? If anyone tells me I need to get a specific app to message them, then I won’t be messaging them.

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      11 months ago

      Security is probably the most important, but there are also general chat utility features such as replies and read receipts.

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      11 months ago

      This right here is the attitude that most people have, because it’s not convenient for them. Suck it up, there are many things in life you do not want to do, but you have to do them anyways.