• randomaside@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    11 months ago

    Sometimes I get hugged and I feel like someone is exploiting my need for affection so I immediately reject it. I am not normal.

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      11 months ago

      I work with a lot of 20-30yo and give them compliments like “Hey you did a great job” and in that first few months, they always respond negatively.

      It takes a while but I continue showing them care and affection, until they break out of their shell, which makes me happy. Because in all the toxicity of everything around us, I try to at least make work a pleasant experience.