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    1 year ago

    I also grew up a fundie evangelical and am out of it now (and coincidentally ‘out’ now at nearly 40).

    This is bang on. Hearing this story didn’t really phase me because it’s a clear misinterpretation of what they do.

    They have an accountability software like xwatch or covenant eyes that tracks everything they do online (limited to machines it’s installed on so any adult could just go buy a new device) and reports any shady URLs to their ‘accountability partner’. Mike is playing that role for his son which, in fundie land, is great parental support. And for reasons unknown to me, his son seems to play that role for him, which is decidedly less common as it elevates a son to an equal position with the father. But this shit happens sometimes, especially in a particularly insular family where it would be damaging for the truth of these behaviors to come out. A good example is how the Duggars handled Josh being a sexual predator before it went public.