I wish I could agree with you. But I don’t and stand by my original statement. For what it’s worth, I’m old, as in my only kid is an adult. I love him and cherish him and would do anything in the world for him, and as far as I know, he feels the same about me. He’s received an education, has a professional job, etc. Despite all that, I still think it was a shitty, narcissistic thing for me to do, given the current state of the world. It maybe wasn’t so obvious decades ago, but there is no excuse these days.