cross-posted from: https://lemmynsfw.com/post/269418

I get the sense that many people (including me) would answer “frequency” or maybe it’s “variety”. What is it for you? How could your needs be better satisfied?

It would be really cool to give people suggestions too, if you have any good ideas to help.

  • jaxi@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    1 year ago

    As an update, we’re working on being a lot more communicative about things that feel good or bad, and while she was sucking me off yesterday I was grabbing her ass pretty hard. She was making some noises and I wasn’t sure what she was feeling, but she told me that “it hurts but I kinda like it” which sounded pretty good to me ;) Makes me think she’s definitely be into the edging when the time seems right to bring it up, as well as potentially exploring some light bondage/restraint play. Perhaps she just needs to figure out the things that get her imagination going